Little Black Dress

 

In company of friends

 

Me

 

Men!!

Many say u can never understand a woman...i agree to differ...Men are the most complrcated creatures of all!! Made some observations..Married Men or those in a relationship tend to tell their partners the opposite of what they like and do the opposite of what they preach about! Check this out...

1. Dress Code....."Baby, i dont like u wearin that short dress in public,especially when am not around"..the next minute...he is out in the club,the mall, drivin down the street, or wherever...he spots a girl in something short..he gona think "damn!!aint that hot"...WTF...why not just complement ur girl rather than tellin her u dont like her wearin small mini somethings??
2. The club scene...."I hate it when u drink like that...It aint sexy"...funny thing...men that usually go out without there partners spend money buyin girls drinks till the drunk out of their F** minds! and they call it havin a good time...hmm...help me analyse this scenario...i really dont understand...
3. The opposite sex..."U know i dont like it when u hang out with men and you keep doin it"...he goes out n he is around girls...aint them girls around a man?? Whats the difference? we both enjoyin the company of the of the opposite sex..whats the fuss all about?
4. The Ego...Mr know-it-all thinks he runs the show..."I have placed my offer on the table whats ur take"...now thats one line i personally say i hate...he wants you yet he goin try make u feel u the one that wants him most!! Men!! jes cant understand them...
5. Silence....Men naturally think they can go quiet on u for a long time and expect you to understand...try go quiet on him...n u have lots questions to answer: where have u been? who were you with? why didnt you tell me?

TBC

Challlenges..(Part Deux)

The easiest decisions are the toughest to make...especially when theres no favourable response from the side u are inclined to....
To trust my instinct or not?? my mind says yes...my heart is a lil cautious..
Trying to balance it all...how much energy have i got?? which step shall i take?? which side shuld i turn to?
I DONT KNOW!!! Help me know!

Challenges!

Ignorance is..Thinkin u win it all when u hit a "bulls eye"!! uh uh...I have learnt this the hard way...
I have always considered life to be a MAJOR challenge...most people am sure will agree that these challenges are what make life worth living...They make life more beautiful by adding color,flavour,aroma,oomph...u name it.
And then theres those challenges that make u think "I thought I already jumped that hurdle"...
Now thats the point where I get so frustrated...Am sure I have something in my grip..but then...theres those external forces that are tryin to grab and seize what I got...To let Go or Hold On??whats my take??
Funny...I know I got what I want...I nailed it...and yet that biggest challenge arises...the battle between mind and soul..creating an unequilibrium...settin everything off balance...

TBC...