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Rachel Muuma
Cheating men..(Part Deux): The Reasons
When it comes to cheating...every cheating man has his boundaries...some men have certain rules about when cheating actually qualifies as cheating...here are some of the excuses a man uses for cheating in "normal circumstances":
A failing relationship...when things aint going well with his wife or girlfriend, many men think it is ok for them to find themselves mistresses or have a one night stand with a total stranger.(cowardice dont u think? a real man admits things aint workin and decides to end the relationship if theres no hope of salvaging the spark)
A long distance relationship...men have a whole different definition for this...a few weeks or months away from you, out of town or the country qualify under this category...n whatever he does with another woman in those days,weeks or months DOESNT qualify as cheating just because YOU AINT within reach.(scoff)
My favorite dumbest excuse a cheatin man makes...this ones funny..he had sex with another woman...SEX, yeah the whole deal..if he didnt come or didnt enjoy it...or if she just gave him head...or did her from the butt...the he DIDNT cheat.(lol..sorry about the language)
An open relationship...just when does a relationship become open? educate me please..is this the kind of scenario of an open relationship??.. hes been dating her for more than a year..he meets another woman n convinces her with lots of lies just to get him a bit of flatter?(ill never understand wat an open relationship is because by one way or another someone gets hurt)..
You all cheating men out there..remember this..it takes a bigger coward to be a player than it does to be faithful...nomatter the circumstances,if you hide it from your woman, or you feel guilty about it, then its cheating!
Men!!
Many say u can never understand a woman...i agree to differ...Men are the most complrcated creatures of all!! Made some observations..Married Men or those in a relationship tend to tell their partners the opposite of what they like and do the opposite of what they preach about! Check this out...
1. Dress Code....."Baby, i dont like u wearin that short dress in public,especially when am not around"..the next minute...he is out in the club,the mall, drivin down the street, or wherever...he spots a girl in something short..he gona think "damn!!aint that hot"...WTF...why not just complement ur girl rather than tellin her u dont like her wearin small mini somethings??
2. The club scene...."I hate it when u drink like that...It aint sexy"...funny thing...men that usually go out without there partners spend money buyin girls drinks till the drunk out of their F** minds! and they call it havin a good time...hmm...help me analyse this scenario...i really dont understand...
3. The opposite sex..."U know i dont like it when u hang out with men and you keep doin it"...he goes out n he is around girls...aint them girls around a man?? Whats the difference? we both enjoyin the company of the of the opposite sex..whats the fuss all about?
4. The Ego...Mr know-it-all thinks he runs the show..."I have placed my offer on the table whats ur take"...now thats one line i personally say i hate...he wants you yet he goin try make u feel u the one that wants him most!! Men!! jes cant understand them...
5. Silence....Men naturally think they can go quiet on u for a long time and expect you to understand...try go quiet on him...n u have lots questions to answer: where have u been? who were you with? why didnt you tell me?
TBC
Challlenges..(Part Deux)
The easiest decisions are the toughest to make...especially when theres no favourable response from the side u are inclined to....
To trust my instinct or not?? my mind says yes...my heart is a lil cautious..
Trying to balance it all...how much energy have i got?? which step shall i take?? which side shuld i turn to?
I DONT KNOW!!! Help me know!
Challenges!
Ignorance is..Thinkin u win it all when u hit a "bulls eye"!! uh uh...I have learnt this the hard way...
I have always considered life to be a MAJOR challenge...most people am sure will agree that these challenges are what make life worth living...They make life more beautiful by adding color,flavour,aroma,oomph...u name it.
And then theres those challenges that make u think "I thought I already jumped that hurdle"...
Now thats the point where I get so frustrated...Am sure I have something in my grip..but then...theres those external forces that are tryin to grab and seize what I got...To let Go or Hold On??whats my take??
Funny...I know I got what I want...I nailed it...and yet that biggest challenge arises...the battle between mind and soul..creating an unequilibrium...settin everything off balance...
TBC...
Heartbreaks!!!(one of them randoms)
Many people think a heart break is the worst tht could evr happen to someone in love...i look at it in a different way...
Its funny how one heartbreak makes you stronger...Think....
Ur partner falls out of love, cheats on u n eventually leaves u...u feel torn apart...but with time...u pick those lil pieces of ur heart..n mend...
the process isnt easy...infact it takes almost all your energy..yet u duit...it anly takes a strong person to do a tough task..and at the end of it..u become a much stronger person...ur own hero...
imagine how much more stronger ud get...gettin hurt over again???(am jes sayin...)
In my opinion...through expirience...we all need a lil heartbreaks...some people say "some broken hearts never mend" but i believe mendin a broken heart is a choice someone makes...u have two options...to live each day feelin like shit or to brush everything off n be happy for u are still alive...
never ever let any man/woman take the beauty of loving n being loved away from u..cuz if u dont got love in ur life...then u dont know a thing about the beauty of living...
In Loving Memory of Tonight
Tears down my cheeks...they are not tears of joy yet they aint sad tears either...some way i just felt the need to cry...let out whatever it is that neededs letting out...
but...i surely wana remember tonight...n all it brought...
Iam Not On Facebook To Flirt, Damn It!
This is to y'all that keep tryin to flirt with me in my inbox!!!!
Iam definately NOT looking for a date here!!
Iam NOT looking for a marriage mate!!
And am definately NOT looking for a one night stand!!
I appriciate your compliments, thank you for liking me..
BUT!!!!
Am tired of your crazy messages.and when i dont reply, it means i dont wana have the conversation...you dont have to send the message over again!! Respect my inbox please
This adorable creature called W-O-M-A-N
If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman
If you don't, you are not a man
If you praise her, she thinks you are lying
If you don't, you are good for nothing
If you agree to all her likes, she is abusing
If you don't, you are not understanding
If you make romance, you are an 'experienced man'
If you don't you are half a man
If you visit her too often, she thinks it is boring
If you don't, she accuses you of double crossing
If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy
If you don't, you are a dull boy
If you are jealous, she says it's bad
If you u are not, she thinks you do not love her
If you attempt a romance, she says you didn't respect her
If you don't, she thinks you do not like her
If you are a minute late, she complains it's hard to wait
If she is late, she says that's a girl's way
If you visit another, she accuses you of being a heel
If she is visited by another, 'oh it's natural, we are girls'
If you kiss her once in a while, she professes you are cold
If you kiss her too many, she yells that you are taking advantage
If you fail to help her in crossing the street, you lack ethics
If you do, she thinks it's just one of the man's tactics
If you stare at other, she accuses you of flirting
If she is stared by others, she says that they are just admiring
If you talk, she wants you to listen
If you listen, she wants you to talk
Oh God! you created those creature called "WOMAN'
So simple, yet so complex
So weak, yet so powerful
So confusing, yet so desirable
"O LORD, tell me what to do. AMEN"
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