Cheating men..(Part Deux): The Reasons

When it comes to cheating...every cheating man has his boundaries...some men have certain rules about when cheating actually qualifies as cheating...here are some of the excuses a man uses for cheating in "normal circumstances":

A failing relationship...when things aint going well with his wife or girlfriend, many men think it is ok for them to find themselves mistresses or have a one night stand with a total stranger.(cowardice dont u think? a real man admits things aint workin and decides to end the relationship if theres no hope of salvaging the spark)

A long distance relationship...men have a whole different definition for this...a few weeks or months away from you, out of town or the country qualify under this category...n whatever he does with another woman in those days,weeks or months DOESNT qualify as cheating just because YOU AINT within reach.(scoff)

My favorite dumbest excuse a cheatin man makes...this ones funny..he had sex with another woman...SEX, yeah the whole deal..if he didnt come or didnt enjoy it...or if she just gave him head...or did her from the butt...the he DIDNT cheat.(lol..sorry about the language)

An open relationship...just when does a relationship become open? educate me please..is this the kind of scenario of an open relationship??.. hes been dating her for more than a year..he meets another woman n convinces her with lots of lies just to get him a bit of flatter?(ill never understand wat an open relationship is because by one way or another someone gets hurt)..

You all cheating men out there..remember this..it takes a bigger coward to be a player than it does to be faithful...nomatter the circumstances,if you hide it from your woman, or you feel guilty about it, then its cheating!

Heartbreaks!!!(one of them randoms)

Many people think a heart break is the worst tht could evr happen to someone in love...i look at it in a different way...
Its funny how one heartbreak makes you stronger...Think....
Ur partner falls out of love, cheats on u n eventually leaves u...u feel torn apart...but with time...u pick those lil pieces of ur heart..n mend...
the process isnt easy...infact it takes almost all your energy..yet u duit...it anly takes a strong person to do a tough task..and at the end of it..u become a much stronger person...ur own hero...
imagine how much more stronger ud get...gettin hurt over again???(am jes sayin...)
In my opinion...through expirience...we all need a lil heartbreaks...some people say "some broken hearts never mend" but i believe mendin a broken heart is a choice someone makes...u have two options...to live each day feelin like shit or to brush everything off n be happy for u are still alive...
never ever let any man/woman take the beauty of loving n being loved away from u..cuz if u dont got love in ur life...then u dont know a thing about the beauty of living...