Contemplating

Flowing With An Afro

 

Little Black Dress

 

In company of friends

 

Me

 

Men!!

Many say u can never understand a woman...i agree to differ...Men are the most complrcated creatures of all!! Made some observations..Married Men or those in a relationship tend to tell their partners the opposite of what they like and do the opposite of what they preach about! Check this out...

1. Dress Code....."Baby, i dont like u wearin that short dress in public,especially when am not around"..the next minute...he is out in the club,the mall, drivin down the street, or wherever...he spots a girl in something short..he gona think "damn!!aint that hot"...WTF...why not just complement ur girl rather than tellin her u dont like her wearin small mini somethings??
2. The club scene...."I hate it when u drink like that...It aint sexy"...funny thing...men that usually go out without there partners spend money buyin girls drinks till the drunk out of their F** minds! and they call it havin a good time...hmm...help me analyse this scenario...i really dont understand...
3. The opposite sex..."U know i dont like it when u hang out with men and you keep doin it"...he goes out n he is around girls...aint them girls around a man?? Whats the difference? we both enjoyin the company of the of the opposite sex..whats the fuss all about?
4. The Ego...Mr know-it-all thinks he runs the show..."I have placed my offer on the table whats ur take"...now thats one line i personally say i hate...he wants you yet he goin try make u feel u the one that wants him most!! Men!! jes cant understand them...
5. Silence....Men naturally think they can go quiet on u for a long time and expect you to understand...try go quiet on him...n u have lots questions to answer: where have u been? who were you with? why didnt you tell me?

TBC

Challlenges..(Part Deux)

The easiest decisions are the toughest to make...especially when theres no favourable response from the side u are inclined to....
To trust my instinct or not?? my mind says yes...my heart is a lil cautious..
Trying to balance it all...how much energy have i got?? which step shall i take?? which side shuld i turn to?
I DONT KNOW!!! Help me know!