Cheating men..(Part Deux): The Reasons

When it comes to cheating...every cheating man has his boundaries...some men have certain rules about when cheating actually qualifies as cheating...here are some of the excuses a man uses for cheating in "normal circumstances":

A failing relationship...when things aint going well with his wife or girlfriend, many men think it is ok for them to find themselves mistresses or have a one night stand with a total stranger.(cowardice dont u think? a real man admits things aint workin and decides to end the relationship if theres no hope of salvaging the spark)

A long distance relationship...men have a whole different definition for this...a few weeks or months away from you, out of town or the country qualify under this category...n whatever he does with another woman in those days,weeks or months DOESNT qualify as cheating just because YOU AINT within reach.(scoff)

My favorite dumbest excuse a cheatin man makes...this ones funny..he had sex with another woman...SEX, yeah the whole deal..if he didnt come or didnt enjoy it...or if she just gave him head...or did her from the butt...the he DIDNT cheat.(lol..sorry about the language)

An open relationship...just when does a relationship become open? educate me please..is this the kind of scenario of an open relationship??.. hes been dating her for more than a year..he meets another woman n convinces her with lots of lies just to get him a bit of flatter?(ill never understand wat an open relationship is because by one way or another someone gets hurt)..

You all cheating men out there..remember this..it takes a bigger coward to be a player than it does to be faithful...nomatter the circumstances,if you hide it from your woman, or you feel guilty about it, then its cheating!

Men!!

Many say u can never understand a woman...i agree to differ...Men are the most complrcated creatures of all!! Made some observations..Married Men or those in a relationship tend to tell their partners the opposite of what they like and do the opposite of what they preach about! Check this out...

1. Dress Code....."Baby, i dont like u wearin that short dress in public,especially when am not around"..the next minute...he is out in the club,the mall, drivin down the street, or wherever...he spots a girl in something short..he gona think "damn!!aint that hot"...WTF...why not just complement ur girl rather than tellin her u dont like her wearin small mini somethings??
2. The club scene...."I hate it when u drink like that...It aint sexy"...funny thing...men that usually go out without there partners spend money buyin girls drinks till the drunk out of their F** minds! and they call it havin a good time...hmm...help me analyse this scenario...i really dont understand...
3. The opposite sex..."U know i dont like it when u hang out with men and you keep doin it"...he goes out n he is around girls...aint them girls around a man?? Whats the difference? we both enjoyin the company of the of the opposite sex..whats the fuss all about?
4. The Ego...Mr know-it-all thinks he runs the show..."I have placed my offer on the table whats ur take"...now thats one line i personally say i hate...he wants you yet he goin try make u feel u the one that wants him most!! Men!! jes cant understand them...
5. Silence....Men naturally think they can go quiet on u for a long time and expect you to understand...try go quiet on him...n u have lots questions to answer: where have u been? who were you with? why didnt you tell me?

TBC